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Work and Dreams — what did you want to be when you were a child? How did that change?
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Eight questions to warm up.
Let's practice these questions — and see where the conversation naturally goes.
- What did you want to be when you were a child? Why did that job excite you?
- At what point did your childhood dream change — and what caused it?
- Do you think children today have more or fewer career options than your generation did?
- What does your current job or daily life look like — and do you enjoy it?
- Do you think it's important to be passionate about your work, or is a job just a job?
- Have you ever taken a risk in your career or studies? How did it go?
- Is there a second life — a completely different path — that you sometimes imagine for yourself?
- What advice would you give to a 16-year-old version of yourself about work and the future?
How might it sound?
Here are answer examples, to inspire your own ideas.
- What did you want to be when you were a child? Why did that job excite you? When I was a child, I wanted to be a doctor. I thought it was exciting because doctors help people and save lives. But later I realised it needed many years of study, so my aspiration changed.
- At what point did your childhood dream change — and what caused it? My dream changed when I was about 16. I started to enjoy computers more than science. I think my teacher had a big influence on me — she made me see that I was good at it.
- Do you think it's important to be passionate about your work, or is a job just a job? I think it is important to enjoy your work, but it is not always possible. Sometimes we need a stable job to pay our bills. But if you can find work you love, that is very lucky.
- What advice would you give to a 16-year-old version of yourself about work and the future? I would tell myself not to worry so much about other people's opinions. I would say: pursue your passion and work hard. And don't be afraid to make mistakes — they are not the end of the world.
- Do you think children today have more or fewer career options than your generation did? In some ways, far more — careers in technology, content creation, and digital business simply didn't exist a generation ago. But the pressure to make the "right" choice has increased enormously, which can feel paralysing. Having more options doesn't always make the decision easier.
- Have you ever taken a risk in your career or studies? How did it go? I left a stable office job in my late twenties to pursue something I actually cared about. It was a real turning point — terrifying at the time, and there were moments I seriously questioned the decision. But looking back, it was the best thing I ever did for myself professionally.
- Is there a second life — a completely different path — that you sometimes imagine for yourself? Honestly, yes. I sometimes imagine a version of myself who moved abroad earlier, learned more languages, worked with my hands rather than at a desk. I wouldn't call it regret exactly — more a quiet curiosity about the roads not taken.
- What advice would you give to a 16-year-old version of yourself about work and the future? I'd say: be more realistic about the sacrifices involved in chasing what you love — but chase it anyway. The people who told me to play it safe were well-meaning, but the regret of not trying would have been far heavier than the risk of failing.
Eight words to play with.
noun
something you really hope to achieve in the future
dream, goal
noun phrase
a moment when everything starts to change
key moment, crossroads
verb
to actively go after something you want
follow, chase
adjective
based on what is actually possible, not just what you hope for
practical, sensible
noun / verb
the effect that a person or thing has on how you think or act
effect, impact
noun / verb
giving up something important to get something else
give up, trade-off
noun
a very strong feeling of enthusiasm for something
love, enthusiasm
noun / verb
the sad feeling of wishing you had done something differently
sadness, remorse
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